I thought I was done… but I’m not- was spurred by a few annoying things I read today: here are today’s short words on raunch culture.
The other problem with raunch culture, other than invalidating alternative kinds of femininity not defined by beauty- is what I kept creeping around in my last post but didn’t state explicitly: Raunch culture removes power from women specifically because the basis upon which power is offered is always a fundamentally invalidated one.
For example, I read an article of the Miss Universe Australia pageant that mentioned that one girl was eliminated from competition for having posed topless for Ralph magazine, made worse apparently because the accompanying article had the contestant proclaiminng her love of sex and sunbathing topless.
In this situation, the girl is afforded power because she has chosen to indulge in a sexy personality- a trait apparently, appreciated in women. Subsequently we can assume, she might have felt proud of her attractiveness and sex appeal. Men (and perhaps women) are allowed to admire her, desire her, but significantly it becomes obvious, only within the context of the pursuit of sex. God forbid she should want respectibility, or dare attempt to gain appreciation via other less sexy avenues.
The fact that a beauty pageant no less, was the one to take the moral highground in this instance, makes it clear to me there is line women are supposed to skirt, but, I say, it is a line that it is virtually invisible. For instance, where is the line between Jessica Alba’s proclamations that she won’t go topless, with the probable glimpses of nipple allowed by her skimpy bikini routines? The line here of course, is that Alba gains kudos for what is essentially a meaningless show of modesty. Thus the fact remains women are allowed to only be so pretty, so sexy or deal with the consequences.
But why? I say bottom line is this: when women present themselves as sex objects in whatever context, they will likely be treated at some stage, to some degree, with the hypocritical notion that they are unworthy of being respected because they have chosen to ’disrespect’ themselves. That is, they deserved to be dismissed for acting like a slut. In effect, in using their bodies in so explicit a manner, they become punished for fulfilling their roles too well.
I reckon the fundamental issue with drawing the line between the respectable woman and the pariah is simply a matter of verisimilitude: let us pretend there is a line to be crossed, and we can pretend that women on the ‘right’ side of the line actually wield power not only over others, but over their own sexuality.
Final word of today: raunch culture thus occupies this non-existant grey area between sluttery and morality. However even though it is hanging onto the ‘good side’, any girl that is embroiled within raunch culture is already a joke. The very power Christina Aguilera claimed to acrue from her outward displays of ‘Dirrtyness’ remained a nice idea, but was always denigrated until she married and groomed herself away from the clutches of raunch culture. The hypocritical truth remains that power derived from Raunch (for women particularly) is a vacuous promise, precisely because women and sex are rarely a combination truly transgressive enough to overcome its patriarchal boundaries.
Ok, I really am done for now. Cue more frivolous fodder in the next couple of days.
12 responses so far ↓
Scum Dept. // June 20, 2007 at 10:22 am |
Excuse me, but can I be inflammatory for a second?
Do you think women are hard wired to be monogamous? Just as men are hard wired to fuck anything that moves?
So when we see a female, who is promiscuous, or sexually self promoting, and a male who isn’t the standard muscle-bound alpha fuck machine, they are some what threatening ‘the norms’ and are consequently repelled. Hence the existence and stinging nature of words like ’slut’ and ‘whore’. (Interestingly enough there are no overly common words used to describe men who are simply not interested in sex and yes, they do exist)
In my opinion the word “slut” and its connotations are used to oppress freedom and self expression, in much the same way as some religious activities do, and are used as an extension of jealousy and self-consciousness.
Am I totally missing the point here?
jen // June 20, 2007 at 11:29 am |
Hey Scum- No you’re not missing the point.
I guess the hard thing here is that I haven’t distinguished between people’s actual emotions/ideas about ’sluts’, and the theoretical idea of what being a slut means. I’m not trying to imply that all ’sexy’ women are called sluts, or that all men are hard wired to just wanna fuck women and ignore their opinions. I’ve deliberately ignored the significance of where the term ’slut’ arises from in most cases. i.e. not many people are going to defend Paris Hilton, and say that she has wrongfully had her power removed.
My main point was that the fact that the notion of being a ’slut’/'whore’, as opposed to being acceptably sexy exists shows that the ’sexy’ persona is inherently a problematic one in terms of power for women, whether they are societally ‘respected’ or not. And subsequently that raunch culture is a problem because it perpetuates the myth that being proud of one’s sexual persona is a powerful position.
The problem is that I’m presenting two contradictory positions: 1) I’m agreeing with you in the sense that I suggest ’slut’ is an oppressive term that doesn’t allow ’sexy’ women true power, at the same time that 2) I suggest sex is the core of the problem- that women can’t be sexy and truly utilise the power being sexy gives them- so don’t use sex.
…and the core of the problem for both positions, is as you say, a societal one- AND importantly a hypocritical one (from which, obviously, I am not immue).
Whew- jeez, after that long response, I hope we’re talking about the same thing here.
Hayley // June 20, 2007 at 11:34 am |
Damn straight hon! Oh, I love this post. It fits in nicely with what I’ve been thinking about lately, that perhaps in these sex-obsessed times, the only way a woman (or a man for that matter) can shock anymore is to reject sex entirely.
jen // June 20, 2007 at 11:37 am |
“the only way a woman (or a man for that matter) can shock anymore is to reject sex entirely”
… or is it????? As in, maybe that too is social pandering, and we should be UBER sexy in order to state our anger at being denigrated for being sexy. Oh, the drama. Just ignore me. I can’t turn that part of the brain off where you keep thinking about the alternative side… bleh.
So dude, did you get my email? Sorry, haven’t messaged/called- I lost my phone! Can’t wait ’til I see you tonight though. Also, are you going on Friday night? Finally, am really sad- Bel’s playing at Ding Dong tonight, but I can’t go.
Hayley // June 20, 2007 at 11:54 am |
Damn that social panda, always making things difficult!
Yes, I got you internet mail. Can’t wait to see you either, it will be fun beans! Can’t go on Friday unfortunately, have to work. What time is Bel playing at Ding Dong, I’m sure we could pop in for after dinner entertainment.
bella // June 20, 2007 at 1:05 pm |
yes you can! yes you can! 9:30!! 9:30!! and invite everyone you see along the way… ie grandmothers, teachers, smelly people on trams (although there is a quota restriction on these in the interests of health and safety).
INVITE THE CHEF at the restaurant you are going to, the wait staff, even the food if it is sentient enough to appreciate music and can walk (if john howard can do it a baked clam can do it).
rarrr!
of course, only if you want to
bella // June 20, 2007 at 1:08 pm |
oooh see how i just majorly guilt tripped you there? seriously, though, it’s no huge deal, only come if you want/ can be bothered
xxxx
jen // June 20, 2007 at 1:52 pm |
will try very hard dude… but don’t get hopes up- same old thing, not sure how I’ll be able to get home… etc. James is working tonight til late, so have no car
Hayley // June 20, 2007 at 4:00 pm |
You need a car? I has a car! You may need to ply me with vast amounts of non-alcoholic cocktails to induce me to drive to Frankston, but there’s nothing I love more than driving to new places (and you get friends and music into the bargain!).
Jobe // June 20, 2007 at 5:01 pm |
I agree with you about this.
But what I’m interested to know is, do you think this is a lost cause/a matter or waiting a few decades for perceptions to change?
And then won’t it be down to the jokes–the Hiltons and Aguileras–to make sex an accepted part of being a woman?
Or is there something else?
Scum Dept. // June 20, 2007 at 9:39 pm |
I don’t know about you guys but I’m pretty much ready to liberate sex completely.
jen // June 23, 2007 at 1:28 am |
Jobe: I dunno. On a day to day basis, I never sit around feeling like I’m oppressed and I’m not allowed to be sexually assertive. I don’t see any of my girlfriends feeling as if they can’t be ’sexy’ if they want to be taken seriously. I reckon they’re pretty comfortable with themselves, with sex and sexiness, and wouldn’t ever feel less intelligent for being ‘pretty’. For the most part I think it’s an even playing ground in that sense.
But then I turn around and have some stupid media thing piss me off, have some stranger pass me in the train station and make some completely awful remark because I’m showing like half an inch of cleavage, or have shit yelled at us from cars when we’re just walking down the street. But, most of the time it’s not even the obvious things like that, rather people’s subconscious views on women that are the most insidious encouragers of all this bullshit… But, I’m choosing to be optimistic about it all, I think time will help iron stuff out (if people pay attention).
If nothing else, if Krista Allen can move on from her soft core beginnings to ‘What about Brian’, who I am to say there’s been no progress?
Scummy: Yay sex! Let’s liberate.